Let’s Make A Habit of Appreciating Our Blessings in the New Year

As the new year approaches, it is time to consider the importance of fostering a habit of gratitude. Rather than focusing on the difficulties and disappointments we may encounter, it would be beneficial to pause and acknowledge the things we are thankful for, no matter how insignificant they may appear.

While the festive season is typically a time of merriment and jubilation, it can also be exhausting and demanding, as many individuals can attest to from their recent holiday experiences. However, amidst the chaos, there are moments of joy and positivity that deserve recognition.

Despite the weariness stemming from a bustling Christmas, I find comfort in the fact that I was able to spend it with cherished loved ones who hold a special place in my heart. This itself is a blessing, as I am mindful of those who may not have had this privilege. Furthermore, having a nourishing meal and leftovers for the following day is a luxury that many families do not have access to during these challenging economic times.

Upon reflection of my Christmas encounter, it is evident that certain traditions are deeply rooted in our lives, such as spending the festive season in the countryside. The lingering aroma of wood smoke serves as a reminiscent of time spent in the great outdoors, and although it may leave me longing for a salon visit, I cannot help but cherish the memories made during this time.

A prevalent aspiration for many of us last year was to witness a shift in Christmas roles and responsibilities, with the expectation that the workload could be shared more evenly. Despite this, many women find themselves heavily occupied with culinary duties and caring for others, leaving minimal time for rest and relaxation.

A friend of mine divulged her strategy for avoiding the stress of preparing elaborate meals during the holidays. She mentioned the possibility of hiring a chef if necessary, a luxury that is not feasible for the majority of women. Consequently, several of us have adapted and made the best of the situation, opting for simplified menus and finding ways to alleviate the burden, such as preparing larger meals that can be enjoyed as leftovers.

This year, however, we experienced a change, as we noticed that the grown children were capable of assisting with household responsibilities and errands. This was a welcomed development, as it lightened the load and allowed us to relish some much-needed relaxation.

As we approach the New Year, it is imperative to shift our attention to the positive facets of our lives. Instead of being weighed down by the challenges we may confront, let us take a moment to acknowledge the small triumphs. It is these moments of gratitude that can uplift our spirits and remind us of the things that truly hold value—our health, the love of family, and the blessings that are often taken for granted.

In the forthcoming year, let us strive to make it a habit to count our blessings and take pleasure in the simple things that bring warmth to our hearts and brightness to our lives.