Dating can often present a significant challenge. Following a year marked by a series of unsuccessful dating experiences, I made a resolution to make a change in the New Year. Upon engaging in self-reflection and seeking honest feedback from friends, I came to the realization that my body language conveyed a lack of approachability. Instead of engaging with potential romantic interests, I often found myself focusing on my friends, my phone, or the cocktail menu.
In addition to using dating apps, I made the error of leaving numerous matches on read, which essentially communicated a lack of genuine interest in dating despite my professed desire. However, as 2023 begins, I have relinquished distracting casual relationships and am now open to connecting with emotionally available partners.
In my pursuit of dating success, I came across a technique referred to as the Marilyn Monroe Effect, which has gained popularity on TikTok. This approach is rooted in the confidence, sensuality, and femininity embodied by the iconic film star. According to psychology student Mikaela Wilson, confidence and appealing body language are the fundamental components of exuding the Marilyn Monroe Effect.
Implementing the Marilyn Monroe Effect entails adhering to five straightforward yet influential guidelines:
1. Display open, inviting body language and maintain eye contact.
2. Walk at a leisurely pace and control one’s body movements.
3. Position oneself strategically in a space to draw attention.
4. Steer clear of erratic body movements and haste.
5. Respond with a smile to convey approachability.
In line with these guidelines, I endeavoured to showcase my most attractive physical features by selecting a dress that accentuated them. I also added volume to my hair, adorned myself with doe-eyed lashes, and applied a striking lipstick to emulate Marilyn Monroe’s renowned style. Upon attending a New Year’s Day event at a bustling bar, I promptly observed the advantages of embracing the Marilyn Monroe Effect.
Initially, I encountered difficulty in adhering to certain guidelines, such as walking at a leisurely pace, controlling body movements, and displaying open body language. However, as the evening progressed, I found myself engaged in conversations with various individuals, received compliments, and even obtained dating advice from someone in a healthy relationship.
Ultimately, the Marilyn Monroe Effect not only enhanced my approachability but also facilitated deeper connections with others. I encourage you to give it a try—keep your phone out of reach, don attire that bolsters your confidence, and follow the five steps. While it may initially feel unfamiliar, with perseverance, it becomes more natural. Perhaps, this year will mark the discovery of love for all of us. Here’s to hoping!
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