The Challenges of Being Married to a Pilot

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Dear Eric,

I am composing this letter to express concern about a dear friend of mine who has recently become a mother with her spouse, a pilot. While her husband appears to be a respectable individual, I cannot overlook my apprehensions regarding their relationship—largely due to the demands of his profession.

The role of a pilot is inherently stressful, with elevated rates of divorce, prolonged periods of absence from home, and ample opportunities for infidelity. Previously, their relationship felt somewhat more manageable when my friend was able to accompany her husband on select trips. However, with the arrival of their child, this dynamic has naturally shifted. It appears to me that having a child may be an attempt to salvage their marriage, particularly as they were not particularly enthusiastic about parenthood in the past.

I am genuinely worried about the obstacles that my friend and her husband will confront as they navigate the intricacies of their marriage amidst the demands of his career. I would greatly appreciate your insights on this matter, given your extensive experience in providing guidance to married couples.

I eagerly await your counsel.

Yours faithfully,
[Your Name]